An Important Advice About How to Get a Woman to Like You: Never Try Hard to Become the Opposite of What She Detests in Men

Adhering to girls' recommendations on how to get a woman to like you, like “You must tell her about your real feelings” is oftentimes unproductive. It is more unreliable if you like a woman and you take HER OWN advice concerning what she likes in a man. This is usually the common mistake that men make!


To explain, here’s a good example: I have helped a guy before named John. He was secretly in love with Kate, who, as described by John, was the most attractive lady on this planet and the only girl he'd ever love (concentrating excessively on one girl is a huge problem itself, most especially if SHE ACTUALLY IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND!!!).

The point is, John is her “best-friend” and Kate has a rather “risky” interest for jerks who address her inadequately. Now every time that takes place, Kate is using John as a shoulder to cry on. And John really loves it, because he can spend more time with Kate and discover about all the things that these guys do to her, thus he also finds out what Kate wants and doesn’t want.

Whenever Kate describes how she'd like to be prioritized, how she likes her boyfriend to be more thoughtful and show his feelings, John listens attentively. When she states that his boyfriend only likes to do things his way and does not pay attention to what she wants, John absolutely agrees and assures Kate that he isn't like that. He tries to reconfirm his point by knowing what Kate wants to do later.

Then needless to say, John would truly refrain from doing the things that Kate hates about her boyfriend. He just needs to listen to her, care for her, talk about his feelings and let her make a decision. Well then Kate would have precisely the opposite of what she doesn’t like in her boyfriend- right here in the presence of John. The exact opposite of what she doesn’t like is what she wants, that sounds only wise, right?

WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!

John recognized it too! He made an effort to be everything she likes, but in the long run she would always go back to her jerk boyfriend. And John remains to be her “shoulder to cry on” while being eaten up by his feelings for her.

Now one final warning: DO NOT LISTEN TO WHAT GIRLS DON’T WANT AND THEN THINK YOU COULD DO THE OPPOSITE TO MAKE HER FALL FOR YOU.

It will not simply bring you nowhere, but worse yet: it will throw you way back massively in the race for her heart!